Bump pyopencl and disable on arm64 (#32695)

bump pyopencl
old-commit-hash: 84dd8ad4a3

poetry.lock

@@ -1,3 +1,3 @@
 version https://git-lfs.github.com/spec/v1
-oid sha256:e3c0ed6349feb2a75a11fab5939e40b757c735855c617b9147de3d614e0b6c50
-size 603428
+oid sha256:da98b0584bc30e1278748b20d04651e660e9264e4c932474650e845331f6f4ad
+size 600759

pyproject.toml

@@ -165,8 +165,7 @@ pprofile = "*"
 polyline = "*"
 pre-commit = "*"
 pyautogui = "*"
-pytools = "<=2024.1.3" # our pinned version of pyopencl use a broken version of pytools
-pyopencl = "==2023.1.4"  # 2024.1 is broken on arm64
+pyopencl = { version = "*", markers = "platform_machine != 'aarch64'" }  # broken on arm64
 pygame = "*"
 pywinctl = "*"
 pyprof2calltree = "*"