acados long merged (#22224)

* rebased

* cleaner, seems to drive better?

* more stable

* wrong import

* new way of thinking

* reports look nice

* start move back

* works at leas

* good timestamps

* step by step

* somewhat work

* tests pass

* ALL CARS STOPPED

* should work

* fake a cruise obstacle

* cleaner costs

* pretty good except cruise braking

* works pretty well now!

* cleanup

* add source

* add source

* that is needed for unit tests

* nan recovery

* little cleaner

* stop wasting arrays

* unreasonable without unfair init

* this isnt needed without the exponential

* that works too

* unused

* uses less

* new ref

* long enough

* e2e long api

* DONT PUT IN A VIEW INTO ACADOS

* new ref for outside weights

* remove debug prints
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