Cycle onroad when changing offroad-only toggles (#35361)

* bad

* Revert "bad"

This reverts commit 6b5475dd90c3a29c00d946c94d726563cbec6179.

* notify param

* doesn't need to live in low level paramcontrol, rename param

* should work

* fix

* disable while engaged

* note

* fix

* just in case

* param is cleared by manager -- this was all to ensure manager got our `started` transition

* clean up

* and that

* rm

* negative better than generic thing

* timer is needed as it's not clean to fix case where you toggle while no ignition -- you can't go onroad + this allows some nice tolerance time for user to switch 2 toggles

* these aren't required or useful

* add to description

* no longer unlive

* allow reset button too

* another pr -- Revert "allow reset button too"

This reverts commit 5d03edddc80d8625ceba5d5178b2781e9d10d9c9.

* rm space from i18n string

* car is powered on

common/params_keys.h

@@ -93,6 +93,7 @@ inline static std::unordered_map<std::string, uint32_t> keys = {
     {"Offroad_TemperatureTooHigh", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START},
     {"Offroad_UnofficialHardware", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START},
     {"Offroad_UpdateFailed", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START},
+    {"OnroadCycleRequested", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START},
     {"OpenpilotEnabledToggle", PERSISTENT},
     {"PandaHeartbeatLost", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START | CLEAR_ON_OFFROAD_TRANSITION},
     {"PandaSomResetTriggered", CLEAR_ON_MANAGER_START | CLEAR_ON_OFFROAD_TRANSITION},